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The season
Posted by vash1282
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3/17/2009 10:20:00 PM
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It's school hols. Which means its The season again.
That season that chickens hates and cows cow-ered from.
Where the rich do it effortlessly in luxury hotels, the not so rich either do it moderately or take out loans to do it like the rich.
And if I'm in Malaysia it will mean weekends of free lunch and road trips.
Already missed 2 sets of my friends wedding and going to miss another 3 confirmed dates this year. And 2 more from the officemates I presume?confirmkan korang, atul and arin? heh. Big congrats and all.. u guys are prob'ly gonna live happily ever after, or u have to die trying.
Curiously, these few weeks also witnessed the season of breakups. And not just breakups of simple puppy love couples.. but breakup over vows, engagement vows and marriage vows.
Listening to their problems.. observing the male counterparts of the other halves, some things just keeps on boiling in my head and I have these to say.
1. For the boy whose well intentioned pinangan was rejected..kesian. However thick her pheromones are engulfing you right now , however stupidly in love she made you feel,beb, zaman skarang ni mane ade orang masok meminang main terjah je!
2. For the married couple who got divorced, ugly as it is.. it's uglier when the guy badmouths the wife to another girl, read, Me. And so not cool if that other girl is not even your close friend, even worse if that girl is still single, it freaks us out on whatever frail believe we had on the fairy tale ending of a prince and princess in love. Ever heard of till death do us part?
Whose ever fault it is, I still think you are just finding faults with your wife because a) you are bored of her b) you had your eyes on some other girl.
it's either of these because you, are a typical Malay man. You had kids, and suddenly u too want to become a hyperactive boy? Enduring like an adult is out of the question? Grow up. Or better still, haul your ass to hell and kill yourself. Make sure u choke on your balls first, we wouldn't want another idiot with your genes accidently spawned on yr way to hell.
I'm like this because your reasons of breaking your vows are so effing unbelievable. I would really have not hate you if its because your wife beats u up , or if yr wife eats babies for breakfast or if she turns out to be a lesbian. She works. So she works?So she wouldn't quit? Are you a millionaire?
So SHE'S BUSY? She weren't busy when u guys were all over each other? PAH. It's another girl isn't it?
3. For the 2 broken engagements. If the guy's innit for sex, and if u know it and didn't leave him, that's your problem. And if u gave in, that's your problem too. Orang tua2 kate tepuk sbelah tak bebunyi. And if that's the only foundation to your relationship, I hate to say this, but what the hell else do you expect? Just thank god u don't have a baby to murder.
And to that other couple.. I am by default, always siding blindly to the girls. It's that ancient rule of bitches bunched together or some such pun. In yr case.. well sure, I pity u having bought all the trays of expensive gifts, all that family meetings with his side too. But u chose to do it despite knowing he's also engaged to another woman. It's either u or her. And why, do u have to degrade yrself as to wait until he broke it off with ya? What kind of lowlife scum gets engaged to 2 families anyway? kalau ye pon true love, tunggu la die ceraikan tunang die dulu. You should just fry him alive the moment u found out about his other fiancé.
4. I think a typical Malay man, a bad one, (shut up, i said, a bad man) is either a cheater, or a lazy ass liar, and mostly a cheater.
5. The type of guy I hate most is the one who acts all sweet boyfriend type when the girl's friends are around them. In private he treats her like a maid. when she's not there he asks his friends about other girl's number/email, and ask to be introduced to the next cute thing, and flirts around like there's no tomorrow, while his girlfriend waits on him on hands and foot. In other words, everyone else know how the girlfriend is being treated,but the girlfriend.
In the end, when he's finished using her, he tells her they are just friends.
This type of guys, I wish they'll get a taste of their own medicine. To be kind is to be cruel, if u have your sights set elsewhere, be a gentleman and break it off instead of playing with other's emotions. If u need a maid to cook and do your stuffs, get an Indon.
6. The type of girl I can't deal with is the ones who fell in love with someone else's boyfriend/fiancé/husband. I wouldn't wish that painful experience to any other girl.
For whatever reasons, I know break up sucks. For the girls, cry all u want, it'll get better once the tears are all dried up, just don't kill yourself.
For the boys.. suck it up.
7. And finally, accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart..
-M.Aurelius
That season that chickens hates and cows cow-ered from.
Where the rich do it effortlessly in luxury hotels, the not so rich either do it moderately or take out loans to do it like the rich.
And if I'm in Malaysia it will mean weekends of free lunch and road trips.
Already missed 2 sets of my friends wedding and going to miss another 3 confirmed dates this year. And 2 more from the officemates I presume?confirmkan korang, atul and arin? heh. Big congrats and all.. u guys are prob'ly gonna live happily ever after, or u have to die trying.
Curiously, these few weeks also witnessed the season of breakups. And not just breakups of simple puppy love couples.. but breakup over vows, engagement vows and marriage vows.
Listening to their problems.. observing the male counterparts of the other halves, some things just keeps on boiling in my head and I have these to say.
1. For the boy whose well intentioned pinangan was rejected..kesian. However thick her pheromones are engulfing you right now , however stupidly in love she made you feel,beb, zaman skarang ni mane ade orang masok meminang main terjah je!
2. For the married couple who got divorced, ugly as it is.. it's uglier when the guy badmouths the wife to another girl, read, Me. And so not cool if that other girl is not even your close friend, even worse if that girl is still single, it freaks us out on whatever frail believe we had on the fairy tale ending of a prince and princess in love. Ever heard of till death do us part?
Whose ever fault it is, I still think you are just finding faults with your wife because a) you are bored of her b) you had your eyes on some other girl.
it's either of these because you, are a typical Malay man. You had kids, and suddenly u too want to become a hyperactive boy? Enduring like an adult is out of the question? Grow up. Or better still, haul your ass to hell and kill yourself. Make sure u choke on your balls first, we wouldn't want another idiot with your genes accidently spawned on yr way to hell.
I'm like this because your reasons of breaking your vows are so effing unbelievable. I would really have not hate you if its because your wife beats u up , or if yr wife eats babies for breakfast or if she turns out to be a lesbian. She works. So she works?So she wouldn't quit? Are you a millionaire?
So SHE'S BUSY? She weren't busy when u guys were all over each other? PAH. It's another girl isn't it?
3. For the 2 broken engagements. If the guy's innit for sex, and if u know it and didn't leave him, that's your problem. And if u gave in, that's your problem too. Orang tua2 kate tepuk sbelah tak bebunyi. And if that's the only foundation to your relationship, I hate to say this, but what the hell else do you expect? Just thank god u don't have a baby to murder.
And to that other couple.. I am by default, always siding blindly to the girls. It's that ancient rule of bitches bunched together or some such pun. In yr case.. well sure, I pity u having bought all the trays of expensive gifts, all that family meetings with his side too. But u chose to do it despite knowing he's also engaged to another woman. It's either u or her. And why, do u have to degrade yrself as to wait until he broke it off with ya? What kind of lowlife scum gets engaged to 2 families anyway? kalau ye pon true love, tunggu la die ceraikan tunang die dulu. You should just fry him alive the moment u found out about his other fiancé.
4. I think a typical Malay man, a bad one, (shut up, i said, a bad man) is either a cheater, or a lazy ass liar, and mostly a cheater.
5. The type of guy I hate most is the one who acts all sweet boyfriend type when the girl's friends are around them. In private he treats her like a maid. when she's not there he asks his friends about other girl's number/email, and ask to be introduced to the next cute thing, and flirts around like there's no tomorrow, while his girlfriend waits on him on hands and foot. In other words, everyone else know how the girlfriend is being treated,but the girlfriend.
In the end, when he's finished using her, he tells her they are just friends.
This type of guys, I wish they'll get a taste of their own medicine. To be kind is to be cruel, if u have your sights set elsewhere, be a gentleman and break it off instead of playing with other's emotions. If u need a maid to cook and do your stuffs, get an Indon.
6. The type of girl I can't deal with is the ones who fell in love with someone else's boyfriend/fiancé/husband. I wouldn't wish that painful experience to any other girl.
For whatever reasons, I know break up sucks. For the girls, cry all u want, it'll get better once the tears are all dried up, just don't kill yourself.
For the boys.. suck it up.
7. And finally, accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart..
-M.Aurelius
